Boundaries and traumaI spent a long time in my practice in the late night and early morning focussed on this subject. As always, I sit with it and things start…Jul 19, 2021Jul 19, 2021
The road to the quiet houseI saw the picture above and it made me think a lot about where I am. I know a lot of people probably feel like it and are slowly getting…Jul 12, 2021Jul 12, 2021
Better humans, better humanityThis time around I thought to let people into my business philosophy and the title of this blog. As with anything it came to me out of work…Jun 28, 2021Jun 28, 2021
Best of Times, Worst of TimesFor once I saw someone write a status that got me thinking about what has happened in June. Five years ago I attended a brilliant event…Jun 14, 2021Jun 14, 2021
Pride?When I think of Pride Month nowadays, I think more of the commercialisation of something authentic than its truest form, time for…Jun 8, 2021Jun 8, 2021
The State of Mental Health (aka The Royal and their subject)It took one episode to dissolve what was once a subject observing a royal to just a pair of humans with their own flaws and idiosyncrasies.May 24, 2021May 24, 2021
How I Roll (aka Frequently Asked Questions)I saw an article about coaching last week in Cosmpolitan. I thought to give it a look just because it’s a wise decision to keep myself…Mar 29, 2021Mar 29, 2021
March ahead…All of a sudden, we’ve reached from a very slow start of the year, the start of Spring. It really feels like we’ve all entered a…Mar 1, 2021Mar 1, 2021
Patrisse Cullors: Black Lives…I’ve included Patrisse in this series because often the struggles of black lives and the struggles of queer people intersect and often do…Feb 8, 2021Feb 8, 2021
Janelle Monae: Queer Black JoyWhen I first saw her perform, I was amazed not only by her poise and skill but her energy that radiated from her. She had not necessarily…Feb 1, 2021Feb 1, 2021
Captain America: A microcosm of growth (Part 1)I’m a movie nerd, so this week I’ve prepared a series for you, taking you on a journey through one of my favourite characters from the MCU…Jan 18, 2021Jan 18, 2021
2021: Leaving The Rut (Part 3)So, you’ve made your way out and back on firm ground. You can look down at the ruts you’ve faced before and take a breath while you’re on…Jan 15, 2021Jan 15, 2021
2021: Climbing The Rut (part 2)Now comes the biggest chunk of making your way out…the plan. To give you an example, I took some time in the post between Xmas and New…Jan 13, 2021Jan 13, 2021
2021: Escaping The Rut (Part 1)So we’re into 2021 and we’ve already been put in place with our own expectations. Once again we face a year with a big international…Jan 11, 2021Jan 11, 2021
Starting Over?A lot of us are wanting to start over after last year. I won’t mention the ‘C’ word but it did cause a lot of upheaval, but sometimes that…Jan 4, 2021Jan 4, 2021
Death and ReflectionsYesterday on my birthday I broke down in front of my partner. Even though I was enjoying the day, the pain of loss just appeared like…Dec 8, 2020Dec 8, 2020
Two PandemicsAs the end of 2020 comes to an end in a few days, I remember being completely blind to the idea of pandemics until September 2019 and…Dec 1, 2020Dec 1, 2020
Fear, The Mind KillerI was looking through Instagram in the early hours of this morning. I saw a picture of a well know but very angry man. Grimaced lips…Nov 17, 2020Nov 17, 2020
Lockdown BluesYep, I was initially frustrated and angry about a second lockdown. Mostly because I was just about starting to feel relatively better and…Nov 10, 2020Nov 10, 2020
Chasing Your TailLast weekend I ended up dealing with a series of events, which ended up with me bruising my back. As always I ended up sulking and being…Nov 3, 2020Nov 3, 2020